Top Travel Experiences of 2015

We tried so hard to narrow down our top travel experiences of 2015 to a Top 10 list, but it was just too hard! So many wonderfully exciting things happened! We eventually narrowed it down to our Top 15, our #Top15of2015, and we’ve been sharing them on Instagram for the past few days. These are, of course, in no particular order – how could we decide?!

Our Top 15 Travel Experiences of 2015

Meagan couldn’t believe her luck when she visited the most picturesque lavender fields in Provence. Every stop along the drive was like a photo from a book! All of the flowers were blooming brightly!

In January, Stephanie traveled with her husband to Thailand to show him where she studied abroad.

Meagan had the most amazing experiences in France, and cycling through Burgundy with Beaune as a home base blew her away! She wants to go back again right now! It probably isn’t on your travel list yet, but is should be! Continue reading

Meagan grew up in the North Georgia Mountains and spent her first trip abroad in Italy. She’s been traveling all over the world ever since, learning Spanish, Japanese, and Thai. She travels for the food, the culture, and the history.

Meet Our Friend Afar: Ryan

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Tell us about yourself.

My name is Ryan, husband of Friend Afar, Meagan, and high school teacher and coach.  I teach foreign language (Spanish), but I am also a certified history teacher, too.  One of the ways that I love to combine these two disciplines is by leading student study abroad trips.  I have twice taken my students to Europe, and I hope to organize another trip very soon.  I love all things sports, especially Atlanta Braves baseball, soccer, golf, and (American) football.  I also love movies, television, board games, and any kind of trivia game.  I think traveling is great because I can experience nearly all of the things I love while I am away from home, albeit in new and exciting cultures which have their own unique traditions, customs, and practices.  And to think that I can return home to share my stories and inspire a captivated audience of eager young minds in my classroom makes the experience of travel all the more thrilling!

Where did you travel for your first trip abroad? Was it for work, school, or vacation?

My first trip abroad was to Vancouver, Canada during the summer between my senior year of high school and freshman year of college.  My mom had a work conference there, and my grandma and I tagged along.  The experience was so exciting because I felt like I was in a completely different world.  The trees were different, the animals were different, the food was different, the cities were different, and the people were different.  My grandma and I traveled out to see the sights during the day while my mom was working, and then we would all explore the city at night.  We also just so happened to be there during the Celebration of Light international fireworks competition, and we watched the show from our high-rise hotel balcony downtown.  It was definitely a memorable first trip abroad!

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Ryan in Cholula, Mexico

Do you speak a foreign language? How has that influenced your travel?

As I mentioned, I do speak a foreign language, and the very fact that I do can be attributed to my experiences with travel.  I studied Spanish in high school, but I never intended to continue using it after graduation.  During my first year of college I got a chance to participate in a mission trip to Juarez, Mexico to build houses for families in need.  I don’t really remember how it happened, but somehow I was chosen as the designated interpreter to communicate with the Mexican family for whom we were building the house.  At first this task scared me tremendously, but by the third and final day on our work site I felt so proud of the relationship that I had formed with that family of complete strangers who spoke a foreign language and lived in a world so foreign to me.  I think it was in that moment that the world shrunk for me.  No longer did I view other cultures as so distant and incomprehensible.  From that trip on I embraced the excitement of using my Spanish skills, and the very next semester I re-enrolled in Spanish courses.  The following year I spent an entire semester studying abroad in Puebla, Mexico where I lived, worked, played, and traveled with native Mexicans.  My language skills got better and better to the point where I now teach Spanish to high schoolers.  My knowledge of Spanish has also allowed me to travel with confidence to places like Costa Rica, Panama, and Spain.  In each of those places I learned so much more about the Spanish language, lessons that I can then take into my classroom as well.  So in a sense, not only has my speaking a foreign language influenced my travels, but my travels have also influenced my language skills to a great extent.

[Editor’s note: Ryan and Meagan met on another trip to Juarez while building houses with Casas por Cristo. That’s where it all started!]

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Of all the places you’ve visited, which place is your favorite and why?

My absolute favorite city is Rome.  I’m a huge history nerd so being inside the Colosseum or the Sistine Chapel sends shivers down my spine.  Plus, you can’t go wrong having the most delicious food on the planet for every meal.  Also, I don’t think one is truly living life to the fullest unless they have gelato at least once a day (but really more like two or three times a day!).  When Meagan and I honeymooned there, I remember saying to her how around every corner we turned it looked like an image on a postcard.  It is the perfect city for finding a bench in a square (or a spot on the Spanish Steps) and just spending hours watching the world stroll by.  Now that’s amore!

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What places are at the top of your travel list right now?

I spoke earlier of my love for all things sports so pretty much all of the top places on my travel list are sports related.  I would love to follow my favorite team, the Atlanta Braves, around the country to some of America’s iconic baseball parks.  I would also love to take a golfing trip up and down the British Isles, making sure to get in a round at The Old Course at St. Andrews, the home of golf.  I also really want to travel to northwest England to see my favorite soccer team, Liverpool, play a home match.  Finally, I would love to experience the Olympics or the World Cup in another country.  I’d love to be there from start to finish, going to the opening and closing ceremonies and attending matches all day every day.

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Ryan just attended the Tour de France for his 30th birthday and took this great shot at the Arc de Triomphe!

Has a book or movie influenced your travel?

I had a Spanish class in college where an assignment was to show a film and lead the class in discussion about the major themes of the work.  I chose the film Diarios de Motocicleta (The Motorcycle Diaries).  It is the story of Ernesto “Che” Guevara before he became the Cuban revolutionary figure that most people know him to be.  It is based on the true story of a motorcycle journey that Che and his friend took from Brazil to Peru.  As the adventure unfolds, they become transformed by their observations of the lives of the impoverished indigenous populations of South America.  Through the characters they encounter, they witness firsthand the injustices that the destitute face, and they are exposed to people and social classes they would have never encountered otherwise.  There is a quote from the film that has resonated with me ever since I watched it over and over again in preparation for my assignment presentation.  It reads, “Deja que el mundo te cambie y podrás cambiar el mundo (Let the world change you and you can change the world).”  I think often about this notion that if I truly want to make a difference in this world then I have to go out and see and experience it, warts and all.  Only then will I be able to fully understand the greatest challenges and needs of our society.

What advice would you give to someone traveling abroad for the first time?

A wise Alaskan native once told me (how I came to meet that wise and well-traveled man is another story for another day) that in order to truly experience a place you really need to travel that place by land.  It is easy to see the world by hopping from metropolitan city to metropolitan city via plane or even from major sight to major sight or subway station to subway station.  But you miss so much along the way that truly makes the experience memorable.  Traveling should not be about checking boxes off a must-see list.  It should be about living like a local, even if only for a few days or a few hours.  Stroll the streets with no particular destination in mind.  Buy your meal in a local market.  Take a train.  Rent a bike.  Go where the wind blows you.  Feel the vibe of a city.  You can still go to all the tourist sites and eat at the well-reviewed restaurants, but don’t forget to slow down and embrace the rhythm of life that your destination has to offer.  The moments that I remember most in my years of travel are often the most quiet and intimate ones that were never captured on camera or found in a guide book – a picnic under the Eiffel Tower, a late-night walk along the flooded cobblestones of St. Mark’s Square in Venice after all the tourists have left the city and the locals come out to play, or an ice-cold soda after a long, hot trek through the Panamanian jungle.  These are the memories that I cherish the most, and these are the moments that will make you want to continue traveling time and time again.

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Meagan grew up in the North Georgia Mountains and spent her first trip abroad in Italy. She’s been traveling all over the world ever since, learning Spanish, Japanese, and Thai. She travels for the food, the culture, and the history.

The Best Twitter Chats for Travel Lovers

If you’re like us, you don’t just love to travel, you also love sharing stories and getting new ideas from like-minded travelers. Today we’ve found a great selection of organized Twitter chats that help you do just that. In these chats, the host asks questions, and their followers answer by sharing experiences, travel tips, photos, and ideas. Whether you’re an active Twitter user or someone who occasionally follows social media, head on over and follow these conversations for great ideas and fun new travelers to follow. You never know what you’ll find or where your new friends will be from! We especially love seeing the photos that people share of their favorite locations. It often adds a few new spots to our ever-growing destination list!

Twitter Chats for Travel Lovers

Monday
2pm EST: #GirlsTravel
Host: @sheswanderful

3pm EST: #TravelPics
Host: @AntiTourist

3pm EST: #TravelCult
Host: @TravelHistory_

Tuesday
1pm EST: #TRLT (The Road Less Traveled)
Host: @TheTravelCamel

3:30pm EST: #NUTS (Not-So Usual Therapy Session)
Host: @Midliferoadtrip

5:30pm EST: #TTOT (Travel Talk on Twitter)
Host: @TravelDudes

Wednesday
2pm EST: #ExpediaChat
Hosts: @Expedia

3:30pm EST: #RTWChat
Host: @BootsnAll

5pm EST: #Travex
Host: @TravelSquire and @MGPtravelblog

8pm EST: #FoodTravelChat
Host: @FoodTravelChat

Thursday
1:30pm EST: #JSETT
Host: @JetSetExtra

Friday
12pm EST: #TravelSkills
Host: @johnnyjet and @cjmcginnis

All day: #FriFotos
Host:  @EpsteinTravels

Saturday
11am EST: #WeekendWanderlust
Host: @JustinLaurenXO

Do you know about any other travel-themed Twitter chats we should join? Tell us about them in the comments!

Don’t forget to connect with us on Twitter for great travel news, pictures, and tips! We love hearing from you!

Meagan grew up in the North Georgia Mountains and spent her first trip abroad in Italy. She’s been traveling all over the world ever since, learning Spanish, Japanese, and Thai. She travels for the food, the culture, and the history.

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5 Reasons to Fall in Love with Beaune in Burgundy, France

We fell madly in love with Beaune and the entire regino of Burgundy on our most recent trip to France, and we know you will, too!  There are so many amazing things about the town and the area, but below are our Top 5 reasons to fall in love with Beaune!

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Small Town Charm

Thank God we found out about Beaune! It’s a quick train ride from Paris, perfect for a few nights away, but it couldn’t be more of a world away from a bustling, international city. Beaune is a wonderfully tiny town of under 25,000 people, and while it’s the wine capital of Burgundy, it seemed to us that the larger crowds of tourists were coming in on buses for just a quick visit. In the evenings, the town goes quiet, and you feel as though you have the cobblestone streets all to yourself.

Beaune is also an incredibly walkable city. The city itself has sprawled beyond its medieval walls, but the historic center is where you’ll be spending all your time exploring, shopping, eating, and drinking. The area within the walls is about a half mile in diameter, meaning that when you have a list of places to visit or wine caves to try, it’s a really quick walk along very pretty streets.

Historic Sites and Architecture

The main historic site in Beaune is the Hospices de Beaune, or Hôtel-Dieu de Beaune, a charitable hospital that served patients from the 1450s to the 1970s. The hospital was established shortly after the Hundred Years’ War by the Chancellor of the Duke of Burgundy with permission from Pope Eugene IV.
5 Reasons to Fall in Love with Beaune in Burgundy, France - www.AFriendAfar.comToday, the Hospices de Beaune draws visitors that marvel at its beautiful and brightly colored tile roofs, an icon of Burgundian design, and the interior that has been preserved. We loved the way the sunlight reflected off the roof. The pharmacy with shelves full of ceramic jars was our favorite room, but we really enjoyed viewing the large halls of hospital beds that were still set up as they would have been hundreds of years ago.

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About half of the original battlements, ramparts, and moat are in good condition and worth a stroll.

As I mentioned above, Beaune’s historic center is within medieval walls and ramparts, so while the Hospices is a must-see site, as you walk down the cobblestone streets, you’ll be passing beautiful and historic architecture the entire time. We also enjoyed a nice walk and a few bike rides along the perimeter of the city walls.

Wine!

Beaune is the wine capital of Burgundy in the Côte d’Or region and Côte de Beaune subregion in eastern France. There is so much to be said about Burgundian wine, and even though I feel like I learned so much on this trip, I’m definitely not an expert so I will try to keep this short and simple. The villages to the south of Beaune, such as the famous Mersault, Pommard, and Chassagne-Montrachet, specialize in white wines but do have some wonderful red wines as well. Villages to the north of Beaune like Nuits-Saint-Georges and Savigny-les-Beaune specialize in reds. The mix of Pinot Noir and Chardonnay reflects the varying soil composition as you move from north to south. What does this mean for your typical non-sommelier? It means that you’re in a wonderful location for both world-renowned reds and whites, so no matter your preference, there’s something in the Côte de Beaune that you’ll enjoy!

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Wine Caves are the underground cellars for storing wine located all over the city of Beaune and the entire region. Visit these caves for educational tastings and the opportunity to purchase wines from vineyards throughout the surrounding area. In America, I’m used to visiting a specific vineyard with a tasting room on the property. It’s a little different in Burgundy. The vineyards are all on the outskirts of town and the tasting rooms operated by vineyard owners are located in the city centers.

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I must share with you our favorite wine cave that we visited! Patriarche is located within the historic center of Beaune, and our experience there was extraordinary! The company has over 3 miles of caves filled with over 3 million bottles of local wine. Many of the caves date back to the 14th century and were all connected over time. After weaving through caves filled with bottles and barrels, the wine tasting is at the end. Extremely knowledgeable guides will describe the intricacies of each of the 13 wines that you will try. Here’s the best part – they give you a small silver “tastevin” cup, and you get to pour your own tasting! That means that when it finally came time to decide which bottles we’d be purchasing, we were able to try a few of those favorites again. That amazing and delicious experience was only 16 Euros per person, and we got to keep our delightful silver tastevin as a souvenir!

I wrote last week about the wonderful bike trails that weave through the vineyards to each village throughout the Côte de Beaune. It was truly one of the greatest experiences of any vacation we’ve had so far!
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Food

There’s so much to say about Burgundian cuisine, but for us, the highlight was escargot. We had never had escargot before, but we were certain we’d like it since we like similar foods like oysters and mussles. It turned out that we absolutely love escargot. We could not get enough of those wonderfully garlic-buttery snails, and once we had finished off a platter, we’d dip our bread in the leftover sauce. What a treat! Now to find a restaurant in Atlanta that serves good escargot!5 Reasons to Fall in Love with Beaune in Burgundy, France - www.AFriendAfar.comBeaune also has a wonderful market on Saturdays and Wednesdays. The Wednesday market is much smaller, but we greatly enjoyed shopping for bread, cheese, and charcuterie for lunch, and since Beaune is so close to Dijon, there was a large selection of local mustards that made great gifts for foodie friends back home. My husband made fast friends with these gorgeous truffle-sniffing dogs that work for the truffle stand at the market. They may have a job to do other days, but on market days, they were enjoying a lot of attention and belly rubs!

Night Lights

This is one fabulous aspect of Beaune that we would have missed had we gone to bed any earlier. In April, July, and August, once the sun goes down, historic sites all over the city light up! It was fascinating to watch the moving projections that beautifully illustrated the history of the town.

One of our favorites was the Notre Dame cathedral. In addition to covering the cathedral in images of its beautiful stained glass windows and frescos, the illumination starts with drops of water that begin to pour down from the top, hitting different columns and gargoyles and spilling out across the building, making use of the building’s architecture to create a fascinating, moving work of art.

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At the clock tower, an illustrated cat jumps out of one of the windows and chases a ball of light all across the building’s walls until it dives into another window – so charming! And the Hospices shows the history of the building and gorgeous illustrations of the famous altarpiece inside.

When we decided to include Beaune in our trip across France, we were focused primarily on visiting a wine region and touring the vineyards on bicycles. We had no idea that Beaune and Burgundy would become our favorite place in France!

Have you been to Burgundy? We’d love to hear your stories in the comments! If not, which of these wonderful reasons to visit Beaune appeals to you the most? Tell us below!

This post is part of a collection of our guides to France. Click here to read other great stories.

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Meagan grew up in the North Georgia Mountains and spent her first trip abroad in Italy. She’s been traveling all over the world ever since, learning Spanish, Japanese, and Thai. She travels for the food, the culture, and the history.

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Bikes in Burgundy: A Two-Wheeled Tour of French Wine Country

Quick! What’s the coolest thing you’ve ever done on vacation? It’s hard to decide, I know! What about the fanciest thing you’ve ever done? If you had told me a few weeks ago that I’d be wearing shorts, tennis shoes, and sunscreen while simultaneously feeling at the height of luxury, I’d have laughed! But when we traveled through the amazing scenery of Burgundy, France on two wheels, it was clear that we were enjoying the vacation of our lives. Biking in wine country was absolutely the best!

We all know France is famous for its world-class wines and amazing meals, but if you’re looking for a truly memorable vacation, here’s why you should throw out all your previous plans and head to Burgundy.

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We spent a few nights in Beaune, just a short train ride south of Dijon, and it was the perfect decision! Beaune is a wonderfully small town that is surrounded by an old wall just like Avignon. It’s smaller than Avignon though, and somehow when the sun sets, the town falls quiet, and you suddenly have the cobblestone streets to yourself. We stayed at La Villa Fleurie, a charming B&B with a wonderful breakfast and friendly, helpful staff, and we can’t wait to go back!

Beaune is also home to Bourgogne Randonnées, the most helpful bicycle rental shop you could ask for. They set us up with bikes and baskets for a very affordable price for 2 days and provided us with a great map and directions to all of the places we wanted to see. Since they’re the experts, they gave us great advice about what towns to visit and which wine “caves” would be easiest to visit for non-French speakers. Thanks to them, our adventure was off to a great start and ran so smoothly!

We were a little nervous about our trip until they explained to us that the only cars allowed on the roads we’d be taking were for vineyard operations. Not only did we pass very few cars while riding through the vineyards, but the paths were also not very crowded with other cyclists. We found ourselves wondering how we’d stumbled across such an amazing secret!

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We started our ride right here, with the vineyard walls and gates that announce that we’re entering the Veloroute la Voie des Vignes, the Routes de Grands Crus. We stopped to take pictures at the signs and to take it all in. I can’t begin to describe our enthusiasm and disbelief!

A quick primer on Burgundy wines (by this non-expert):
If you think of Beaune as your home base and the hub of the Côte de Beaune, white wines are the specialty of the villages to the south due to the soil composition, and red wines are more common to the north. Here’s a great guide to the more in-depth details about wines from the region and their classifications. We learned all about this from the expert sommeliers at the vineyards and wine caves we visited.

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Our view as we headed into Pommard – How perfect is that ivy covered home surrounded by grapevines?

Our path led us from Beaune through Pommard (pictured above) and Volnay to the gorgeous town of Mersault where we enjoyed a picnic from a boulangerie by the fountain on the square. Mersault has some wonderful boulangeries and cafes, and we found that it was the best place to stop for a meal along the way. From Mersault we continued our tour through the vineyards to the tiny towns of Puligny-Montrachet and Chassagne-Montrachet before we realized that we were worn out and should probably head home. We weren’t expecting our energy to drop off so quickly! If you’re in far better shape than us, try to make it to Satenay. All in all, we biked about 22 miles that day. All that exercise meant we had even more bread, cheese, and desserts later that night than we normally would, and that’s saying a lot! Oh, and extra wine, of course!

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Views of brightly colored tile roofs are part of the Burgundian experience. The square in Mersault, with its beautiful buildings and cheerful fountain was a wonderful place to rest and picnic!

Burgundy was more than we could have ever imagined! The scenery was breathtaking, and knowing that we were biking through some of the best vineyards in the world made the trip so luxurious. Even with all that we read before we arrived in Beaune, we were still really surprised by the following:

  1. Lack of crowds – We expected everyone to be in such an important region for French wines. While we saw a lot of tourists in Beaune at the wine caves and the Hospices, it seemed that the majority of them were just passing through on a tour. There were definitely tourists in Beaune, but it never felt crowded.
  2. Tiny towns – Each little village that we rode through had its own unique personality. When we entered the smallest of the towns in the afternoon, they all had a very sleepy atmosphere.  As I mentioned before, it felt as though we had stumbled upon a wonderful secret. When part of your vacation is set in a tourist magnet like Paris, these towns were a mini-vacation!
  3. Vines as far as you can see! We knew we’d be biking through vineyards. We just didn’t realize that every inch of land in Burgundy would be devoted to vines. It was a never-ending vineyard surrounding each village, and only the short stone fences marked the property lines.
  4. Everyone is making wine! When entering a small village like Volnay or Puligny-Montrachet, we’d leave the marked route for a bit to venture down the side streets. We were always surprised when someone would open up their garage doors or we’d get a peek through a gate into a backyard and someone was cleaning wine barrels or tasting the wine they’ve been laboring for so long to make. I dream of living in a small Burgundian town, surrounded by vines, where wine and all of its intricacies define daily life!
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Vines for days! Wines for days!

This post is part of a collection of our guides to France. Click here to read other great stories about traveling through France.
If you’re interested in other stories from the French countryside, don’t miss the lavender fields in Provence!

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Meagan grew up in the North Georgia Mountains and spent her first trip abroad in Italy. She’s been traveling all over the world ever since, learning Spanish, Japanese, and Thai. She travels for the food, the culture, and the history.

Meet Our Friend Afar: Krista

At A Friend Afar, we want to introduce you to some of our most inspiring fellow travelers. We met Krista at Georgia Tech, and it’s safe to say that she’s been living abroad for the majority of the time that we’ve known her. Krista was a Peace Corps Volunteer in Bulgaria and now teaches English in South Korea.

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Our Friend Krista feeding the deer in Nara, Japan on her most recent trip.

Tell us about yourself.
My name is Krista. I’m a global citizen who happens to hold a US passport. My passport opens quite a few more doors than some of my fellow world travelers, which is a privilege I appreciate and try to take advantage of as much as possible. I’ve been traveling internationally since I was 15 years old. My career is teaching. Currently I live in South Korea.

Do you have any specific travel interests?
Early in my travels I loved to experience anything and everything new. I wanted to see as much of the world as I could, and I quickly ticked off all the continents, except Antarctica which I’m still a little bitter about. Seeing new places all the time was exciting, challenging, and adventurous, however my interests in travel changed after about 5 years. I realized that for all my bucket lists completed and checked boxes there was a lot I was still missing. Living abroad and getting to know a place, culture, people, and not just experience a small piece of it, started to appeal to me far more, so I decided to live abroad.

I do still travel from my base country quite a bit, but my goals have changed in traveling. I like to travel to countries where I have friends that live there and know the culture well, that way I can have a better idea of the country, culture, and people. Now I base myself in a new country every few years and take small trips to surrounding countries where I have local connections. Most of the things I enjoy doing on my trips aren’t in any travel brochure or magazine, and most often I’m the only tourist. I guess you could say my interests in travel are cultural discovery, exploration, and always adventure.

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Krista in London

Do you speak a foreign language? How has that influenced your travel?
I speak Bulgarian quite well and Spanish passably. Disclaimer: I lived in Bulgaria for 4 years. Speaking Bulgarian has definitely influenced my travel habits, but Spanish, not so much. Bulgarian isn’t the easiest language to learn, it’s also not very common, it shares an alphabet with several other similar languages, and the country where they speak it isn’t English proficient outside the major tourist areas. Being able to speak Bulgarian gave me a really good base for roughly understanding many Slavic languages. That, combined with being able to read Cyrillic, makes it much easier for me to travel with confidence in Eastern Europe, a region that’s not very easy to get around if you only speak English. I think that if I didn’t speak Bulgarian I probably wouldn’t have done most of the adventurous things I’ve been able to do in the Balkans and Eastern Europe. I guess I could tell you what some of those are….

I used to rent a car and drive to Greece every spring. I never had a specific location in mind, just somewhere near Thessaloniki or The Fingers. I’d pack a tent and sleeping bag and find a beach or mountain I liked, pull over, and camp for the week. Once I was accidentally on private land and the owner came out to kick me off. After going through English, rudimentary Greek, and then Bulgarian we were able to communicate and he let me stay for the night with the promise I’d move in the morning. I probably should have been really nervous in that situation, but knowing the culture and that eventually I’d be able to communicate it ended up being a really great interaction and we talked for quite a while about his family and land.

Do you plan everything out or go with the flow?
A bit of both actually. I’m a ridiculous researcher. I spend at least double the amount of time I’ll be traveling researching and figuring out all my options for the trip, then usually I make very few plans and decide what to do day by day. Having researched so much and gained a knowledge base of what there is to do, prices, timeframes, possible snags, and effort expended to do each different thing before I leave, I feel super comfortable going with the flow and not worrying I’ll miss out on something once I get to the actual place. Doing it this way seems to be a bit more stressful on the front-end before I leave, but super relaxing when I’m actually on the trip, which is more important to me.

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Livorno, Italy – Photo by Krista

What’s the craziest thing you’ve eaten on a trip?
I used to think it was pig brains or bat testicles in Vanuatu, and it still might be. But those were much easier to eat than live octopus and squid in Korea. When your food is moving it makes it a bit more challenging physically and mentally. The octopus suctioned onto one of my molars, and I was a bit worried I’d lose it, but it was just for a few minutes and then I chewed it to death. So the scariest thing was the octopus, but the oddest was the bat.

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Always Afar!

Do you collect a specific type of souvenir?
Yes! I try to get a piece of small jewellery (earrings, necklace, ring) from each place I go or trip I go on. Each country has such unique techniques and styles that I’ve ended up with a very eclectic collection. I don’t wear much jewellery, but whenever I do it always reminds me of a unique time and place far away. It’s like taking a piece of the place home with you.

What advice would you give someone traveling abroad for the first time?
– Keep in mind you’re in a foreign country where no one is required to speak English. Don’t expect people to speak English.
– Go with the experience. Don’t try to put your own cultural values on someone else’s culture.
– Enjoy the experiences for everything they are! Imagine it as a window into a different world. Even if you don’t like some of the things you see, it’s not your world and you’re just looking; you get to go back to your world soon. If you do like what you see, then explore even more.

And most of all, be aware that you may see everything differently when you go home. it may change you, and that’s ok.

 

Meagan grew up in the North Georgia Mountains and spent her first trip abroad in Italy. She’s been traveling all over the world ever since, learning Spanish, Japanese, and Thai. She travels for the food, the culture, and the history.

The Joy of Getting Lost - Venice, Italy - www.AFriendAfar.com

The Joy of Getting Lost

We put a lot of effort into not getting lost in our daily lives. We put even more effort into avoiding it while traveling.  We use the GPS apps on our phones. We take guided tours in foreign cities. We stop and ask for directions at every turn. We make sure to get from one important location to the next, and we take the easiest and the fastest way possible. We don’t even notice the buildings, the scenery, the restaurants, and the people who we’re rushing past. Sometimes, however, we get really, hopelessly lost.

Below, you’ll find two great reasons to enjoy those times when you’re not quite sure where you are and two of our favorite stories about what we’ve discovered when we’ve been lost. We hope they’ll inspire you to be both curious and calm when you can’t find your destination. Maybe they’ll even inspire you to put away the map and get intentionally lost!

Live like a local.

My husband and I honeymooned in Italy, and we were lucky enough to spend 5 days in Venice, far more than the typical tourist schedule of a quick day trip. We had just spent the last week and a half in Florence and Rome, checking off those must-see museums and historic sites. By the time we arrived in Venice, we were ready for a change of pace.

I know what you’re thinking. Venice is full to the brim with tourists! How could we possibly find a change of pace or any peace and quiet?

Once we checked into our darling bed and breakfast, which was wonderfully located away from the crowds on a quiet street and quiet canal, we made our way out into the city. Unlike every other tourist we met, though, we weren’t headed to the Rialto Bridge or the Piazza de San Marco. We weren’t even headed to Lido or the Guggenheim, Murano or Burano. We decided to just wander along through the alleys with no map in hand. We discovered empty streets that ended at canals lined with archways and window boxes overflowing with flowers. We found great bars where we enjoyed an aperol spritz and a gelato. We ate dinner in a great restaurant, and we honest to goodness didn’t hear anyone else speaking English. We watched beautiful boats pass singing gondoliers. We sat along the canal and watched daily life pass us by. We saw Venice, but we saw it without the rest of the summer crowds jostling past us.

Don’t worry. We had more than enough time to see everything that one goes to Venice to see. We even took time for a Vivaldi concert. That first day in Venice, however, was one of the best days of our trip.

Discover some place unexpected.

It’s one thing to set out with the intention of getting lost. Well, as lost as one can get on a small cluster of islands. It’s another thing altogether to have a limited amount of time and not be able to find the destination that you’re most excited about. This is what happened to my husband and I while we were in London.

To add to the stress of not being able to find the British Museum, we were chaperoning nine of his high school students on their first trip abroad. It was not an easy feat. You might be thinking, “How hard can it be to find one of the most popular museums in the world?!?” I would have agreed with you prior to our attempt to get there from whatever random spot we were dropped off at, but we were given wrong directions twice, and someone even said, “I don’t know which museum you’re talking about; they’re all British,” and he MEANT it. Yes, thank you very much. (I should note that we landed a few hours earlier, and neither my husband nor myself were at the top of our travel game because, as I mentioned, we were dragging nine exhausted teenagers behind us.)

This ended up being a great learning lesson for our students. We helped them step out of their comfort zone and ask for directions, and we also talked to them about how to stay optimistic and not get scared when things go wrong. But do you know what the best part of our extra long walk to the museum was? Just when our students said “we have no idea where we are,” we looked up to see a street sign. We were on Drury Lane! Yes, DRURY LANE where the MUFFIN MAN lives! It was the best detour ever!

The Joy of Getting Lost - London, England - www.AfriendAfar.com

So there you have it: some of our favorite stories from getting lost abroad. Do you have any similar stories? We’d love to hear about them! Tell us your favorite stories about getting lost in the comment section.

 

 

Meagan grew up in the North Georgia Mountains and spent her first trip abroad in Italy. She’s been traveling all over the world ever since, learning Spanish, Japanese, and Thai. She travels for the food, the culture, and the history.