Travel Gift Guide: Travel Coffee Table Books

We couldn’t resist one more round up of our favorite gifts! This time we’ve pulled together our favorite travel coffee table books, and we’ve included a fun variety of art, photographs, and home decor that reflect some of our favorite travel experiences.

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Our Favorite Travel Coffee Table Books

Great Journeys – Travel the World’s Most Spectacular Routes by Lonely Planet
This gorgeous travel coffee table book will have you yearning for a few months off of work so that you can embark on an epic trip. It covers routes from the original Tour de France to Marco Polo’s exploration route. Get ready to add a few new trips to your bucket list!

National Geographic – The Covers by National Geographic
It’s no secret that we’re in love with National Geographic magazines around here. This collection of covers spanning the magazine’s 125 years inspires us to learn more about the places we travel to and the people we meet.

Nomad by Sibella Court
Sibella is our style icon, and we love how Nomad inspires us to bring our travels back home with us. Isn’t it wonderful how decorating your home with souvenirs big and small can take you back to your travels?

Jutaku: Japanese Houses by Naomi Pollock
Japan was one of our first loves, and we’re fascinated by how modern and traditional architecture manage to blend seamlessly. This gorgeous travel coffee table book showcases 400 homes that epitomize modern Japan.

59 Illustrated National Parks by Joel Anderson & Nathan Anderson
We just fell in love with The Anderson Design based out of Nashville, TN. Meagan even bought a print of all of the National Parks for Stephanie for Christmas. You know how Stephanie loves her parks! Anderson Design Group creates some amazing vintage-inspired travel posters – I’m sure they’ll have your favorite spot – and this book contains all of the national parks posters as well as fun facts and a history for each park.

Graphique de la Rue by Louise Fili
Our new found love of France (yeah, we’re a little behind – it’s because we were focused on Asia or Africa) cannot be underestimated. This gorgeous book captures one of the many things that make strolling the streets of Paris so special – the art of Paris’s signs. It’s perfect for your friends that are Francophiles, graphic designers, or just art lovers.

Maps by Aleksandra and Daniel Mizielinska
As cartography enthusiasts, we can’t get through a gift guide around here without including a map or a globe, and this travel coffee table book is an incredibly fun find. The gorgeous illustrations detail the history and cultures of countries and regions. It’s perfect for travelers of all ages!

Atlas of Remote Islands by Judith Schalansky
Just as Great Journeys has us daydreaming about extreme voyages, this book has us adding new locations to our bucket list solely for the sake of “do you know anyone who has been there?!? Neither do I!” Visiting exciting and remote places that none of your friends have heard of will make you quite the explorer. Just adding them to your bucket list will make you feel like one.

You can see our other favorite travel gifts here, here, and here! And don’t forget to give a little back while doing all of your holiday shopping. We rounded up some of our favorite international charities to give you some ideas.

The Top 5 Sights in Istanbul

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There’s so much to see and do in Istanbul but if you find yourself with limited on time in this magical city like I was, it’s helpful to narrow your focus to the top sites you must see. Then, anything additional you see is an added bonus! Here are the top 5 sights in Istanbul:

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1. The Aya Sofya (or Hagia Sophia in Greek) is one of the most important buildings and fascinating places in Istanbul. It’s history is so interesting! Originally it was a church and stayed as such for 916 years. Then, after Sultan Mehmed conquered Istanbul in 1453 it became a mosque. Finally it became a museum in 1934 and that’s what it still is today. I’d allow for at least two hours to spend here as there’s a lot to see and it’s nice to have time to marvel at its beauty. Make sure you bring a good guidebook, rent the audio guide, or hire a guide if you prefer so you understand the richness of the structure, its amazing art & architecture. I left the Aya Sofya with a sense of hope in my heart. If this building could survive with both Christian and Islamic symbols intact from so long ago, perhaps humanity today can be tolerant, loving and learn from one another.

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On a lighter note, after you finish your intense museum time, buy some delicious boiled or roasted corn and some fresh-squeezed juice as a snack. Then, rest your weary feet at Sultan Ahmed Park and take in Aya Sofya from the outside along with the fountain show before heading across the park to…

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2. The Blue (or Sultan Ahmed) Mosque is perhaps the most famous building in Istanbul because its so darn photogenic. It also has six minarets, which is unique because most mosques only have four.
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Its name comes from the blue tile that decorates in the inside of the building.
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It is a functioning mosque so take prayer time into consideration when visiting since the mosque is closed to visitors during those times. Also, ladies will need to cover their heads so either bring your own scarf or one will be issued to you. You’ll also need to remove your shoes and will be given a plastic bag to put them in.

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3. Imagine you can take a ferry ride where on one side there’s Europe and the other side there’s Asia. You can in Istanbul and I highly recommend a Bosphorous ferry ride. It was one of the highlights of my stay. There are a few different options- you can take a full day tour (with one stop on the Asian side), hop-on/hop-off ferry, commuter ferry, or a short tour (with no stops). I opted to do the 90-minute short tour since I didn’t have a ton of time and arrived at the Eminönü pier in the afternoon just in time to catch a sunset ferry ride.
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On the way up the Bosphorous Strait, our ferry stayed closer to the European coastline so I also kept to that side of the boat. We passed some pretty impressive structures, including the grand Dolmabahçe Palace, the Ortaköy Mosque, and the huge Bosphorous Bridge.

Our ferry turned around just as we approached the Faith Bridge, which is the narrowest point on the Bosphorous. On the way back to the pier, we were closer to the Asian coastline and saw impressive yalıs (waterside mansions), an ornate hunting lodge and the Beylerbeyi Palace. The ferry ride ended with a perfect sunset as we returned to the pier near Galata Bridge.
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4. Topkapi Palace was my final stop in Istanbul and is a huge complex where you can easily spend a half day taking in all the various rooms. I’d recommend buying your ticket from the kiosk if possible since it’s a popular sight. It gives visitors interesting insight into the opulent lifestyle of the Ottoman sultans who lived here with their families during the 15th to 19th centuries. Don’t miss the beautiful courtyards, fascinating chambers and other rooms!

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My favorite part was visiting the harem. A separate ticket with an additional fee is required to enter this part of the complex and therefore it’s less crowded. I felt like I had the place to myself most of the time. The harem houses the private chambers, rooms, hamams, and courtyards where sultans lived with their families. The Imperial Hall is one of the highlights with its stunning chandelier and the throne of the sultan.

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If you need to take a break and rest your feet, the Konyali Restaurant is a perfect place to order apple tea and take in the view of the boats below. The food was rather pricey but I did lunch on lentil soup (a must try while in Istanbul) that was affordable and delicious!

5. The Grand Bazaar was one of my top places I knew I had to visit. It’s a unique experience and is popular with tourists and locals alike, which I always appreciate. I loved it so much I just had to write a dedicated post on it!

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I also had the chance to explore a couple of places that weren’t on my top 5 list. I’ll be posting more on those later. Which one was or is on the top of your Istanbul list?

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Gift Guide for Travelers

Here it is, friends! We are so excited to bring you our holiday gift guide for travelers! Last week we shared our favorite travel-themed home decor gifts, but this gift guide includes our favorite goodies that make travel easier as well as those that let us display our wanderlust loud and proud!

Gift Guide for Travelers: Women who Travel

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  1. Luggage Tag Charm from Jet Set Candy (represent your favorite cities or home base!)
  2. Everlane Weekender Bag  (our go-to weekender bag for every short trip! Have you seen our other favorite weekenders and our Everlane tote review?)
  3. Cord Tacos from This is Ground
  4. J.Crew Sleep Mask
  5. Let’s Travel Passport Stamp Phone Case from Casetify (currently protecting Meagan’s phone!)
  6. Jet Set Notebook from Sloane Stationary
  7. Passport Notebook Set from Rifle Paper Company
  8. Inside Suitcases 12 month Calendar from LittleLow on Etsy
  9. MIPOW Smart Power Tube Portable Battery
  10. Secret Paris Coloring Book (or any travel coloring book!)
  11. Cuyana Leather Travel Case Set

Gift Guide for Travelers: Men who Travel

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  1. Cord Burrito from This is Ground
  2. Scratch Off World Map (keeping track of Stephanie’s travels!)
  3. Leather World Map Passport Case
  4. Leather Personalized Luggage Tag
  5. Cord Tacos from This is Ground
  6. Globetrotter Hotel Key Tag (we LOVE ours!)
  7. Baggu Large Zip Pouch
  8. Adventure Journal from Sloane Stationary
  9. MIPOW Smart Power Tube Portable Battery
  10. Herschel Novel Duffel
  11. Everlane Weekender Bag (our go-to weekender bag for every short trip!)

We love Monday Escapes at Packing My Suitcase and My Travel Monkey and Weekend Wanderlust with Justin + Lauren!  Join us over there!

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5 Non-Profits for Giving Tuesday

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Today is Giving Tuesday! And with the end of the year approaching, we thought we’d feature a few our favorite international-focused non-profits! #GivingTuesday is “a global day of giving fueled by the power of social media and collaboration. Observed on the Tuesday following Thanksgiving (in the U.S.) and the widely recognized shopping events Black Friday and Cyber Monday, #GivingTuesday kicks off the charitable season, when many focus on their holiday and end-of-year giving. Since its inaugural year in 2012, #GivingTuesday has become a movement that celebrates and supports giving and philanthropy with events throughout the year and a growing catalog of resources.” Don’t forget to explore ways to maximize your gift including employee match programs with your employer! Here are 5 non-profits we love!

CARE

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CARE has been a organization Stephanie’s admired ever since first hearing about it in college, especially because of its focus on empowering women and girls. She’s been working there a little over a year now! It just celebrated its 70th birthday and was started after World War II to deliver life-saving food and supplies to families in Europe. Check out this video to learn more about its history. Today CARE provides humanitarian assistance to countries in crisis and also works in long term development in food nutrition security, sexual reproductive and maternal health, education, water, and gender empowerment. Donations to cover general operations are always needed but if you are planning on donating as part of a holiday gift, consider giving a Gift of Lasting Change. These gifts are a way of filling a symbolic CARE package with items including school uniforms for girls, Village Savings and Loan Association (VSLA) kits, and a goat. Also when you give through PayPal today, they’ll add 1% to your donation!

Ghana Medical Help

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Ghana Medical Help (GMH) is an organization Stephanie’s been volunteering with on and off for two years now ever since she I returned from Ghana serving in Peace Corps (where you can support community-led projects by issue or country). GMH is a non-profit organization that was founded in July 2010 and provides medical equipment to disadvantaged district hospitals in rural Northern Ghana.   Its mission is to increase the quality of healthcare available and to save lives through the donation of medical aid to hospitals in the most northern Regions of Ghana. Specifically, the non-profit started in the Sandema District Hospital (close to Stephanie’s village Gbedema) in the Upper East region to provide an acute solution to alleviate the immediate needs of basic medical equipment.  During rainy season, the hospital was extremely overcrowded, especially in the children’s ward, and nurses needed basic equipment so they could perform life-saving functions for a greater number of patients.  Because of the impact the medical equipment has produced in Sandema, GMH has expanded to partner with other district hospitals in underserved Northern Ghana and is projected to increase the number of partner hospitals in the future. You can donate to this Canadian charity here!

Kiva

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Kiva leverages the internet and a worldwide network of microfinance institutions to allow individuals lend as little as $25 to help create opportunity around the world. Kiva was born of the following beliefs: people are by nature generous, and will help others if given the opportunity to do so in a transparent, accountable way; the poor are highly motivated and can be very successful when given an opportunity; and by connecting people we can create relationships beyond financial transactions, and build a global community expressing support and encouragement of one another. Stephanie started as a Kiva microlender in 2010 and has loved an amazing journey watching Marik Ole from Kenya pay back his animal sales loan so then she could lend it to the Dzifa Group of Ghana for their sewing group and now Razia’s Group in Pakistan for Fruits & Vegetables.  Consider loaning to a borrower of your choosing to support poverty alleviation through global entrepreneurship!

Refugee Women’s Network

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Refugee Women’s Network (RWN) is a non-profit organization located in Decatur, Georgia and we both serve on the Board as volunteers. It was created by women for women and inspires and equips refugee and immigrant women to become leaders in their homes, businesses and communities through two programs. The Life Skills and Leadership program educates women on how to fulfill their basic needs through practical life-skills education while at the same time providing leadership development training so they can be self-sufficient and independent. The Economic Development program helps refugee and immigrant women be self-sufficient and independent by encouraging self-employment through entrepreneurial and small business opportunities. Donate via PayPal!

The Carter Center

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Meagan has been working for The Carter Center for over two years now, but as an international affairs grad from Georgia Tech, she has admired and followed the organization for almost a decade now. The Carter Center has two main divisions: Peace and Health. Peace programs include human rights, election monitoring, and the newest program: Mobilizing Action for Women and Girls Initiative. The Carter Center’s health programs are world famous. The organization has been leading the fight to eradicate Guinea Worm since 1986, and it’s poised to be the second disease ever eradicated! There were an estimated 3.5 million cases when The Carter Center started its program back in 1986, and there are currently only 20. So close! Health programs at The Carter Center focus on neglected tropical diseases like River Blindness and Trachoma, but there’s also a mental health program that is working to reduce stigma and discrimination. Donations go a long way! $15 will cover the cost for 50 pipe filters used to eradicate Guinea Worm, and $30 pays for river blindness elimination for more than 100 people.

What’s your favorite non-profit? Tell us about it in the comments below!

Top 10 Gifts for the Traveler: Home Decor Edition

Looking for the perfect gift for a travel addict? Whether they travel often or they’re more of an armchair traveler, here are our favorite home decor gifts that bring the world back to their home base.

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Our Travel Gift Guide to Bring the World Back Home

Travel Gift Guide: Rifle Paper Company City Coasters - Best Gifts for Travelers - www.AFriendAfar.com

These Rifle Paper Co. Cities Coasters include chic illustrations of London, Paris, New York, and Tokyo. We use ours for parties and at the office.

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A similar gift that we just couldn’t resist is this great calendar, also by Rifle Paper Co. We love that you can frame the illustrated maps after you use it.

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Stephanie was a Peace Corps Volunteer in Ghana, and the famous souvenir from her region was the Bolga Basket. We love how they bring so much color and character into our homes!

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Stephanie’s been visiting a lot of National Parks lately, and this map is the perfect gift for any National Park fanatic who can’t get enough of the outdoors!

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Meagan collects globes, and while these aren’t her typical vintage globes, they’d be so fun! We love the idea of putting your next location on them. Next stop: Morocco!

And this one from CB2 is such a fun alternative to your typical corkboard map!

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A little art is always a great idea! This fun print by An Ideal Bookshelf includes classic books of travel and adventure to inspire your next trip.

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An absolute favorite, this beautiful coffee table book by Sibella Court has given us so much inspiration for how to display our most precious souvenirs.

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We’re suckers for bringing home textiles when we’re traveling, so naturally, we fell in love with these beautiful Bolivian pillows at Project Bly. We think you’ll love their entire store!

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Stephanie just got back from Istanbul and picked up some of these colorful Turkish towels at the Grand Bazaar. You can score some for yourself or a friend here.

Check out more of our favorite gifts for travelers here and here!

Bazaars of Istanbul

One of the main draws of Istanbul for many people is the shopping in the bazaars! Just like a visit to any major market anywhere, it can be overwhelming and chaotic, but also an amazing cultural experience. One of my favorite things about the Grand Bazaar was how colorful it was. Between the ceiling, lanterns, textiles, and sweet treats, it truly is a feast for the eyes! It definitely made my list of top 5 sights to see in this magical city!

22580858688_6f6e775cdb_oOn my list of what to buy was hammam towels, scarves, tiles, Turkish delight and apple tea (since I became addicted during my stay)! Of course, Istanbul and Turkey in general are famous for their carpets and textiles, but it wasn’t in my budget this time to purchase one. Something to keep in mind is that bargaining is expected, so make sure you’re in the mood to negotiate. Be patient and don’t get too attached- it’s easier that way to walk away and perhaps end up with a good deal.

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The Egyptian or Spice Bazaar near the New Mosque and close to the Galata Bridge is another great market to explore if you’re shopping for food. Besides spices of course, there’s dried fruit, nuts sweets, tea, coffee and more. If you’re buying Turkish delight or baklava, you can buy it fresh (not boxed) and have the shop vacuum seal it! We happened to stumble upon a Turkish coffee roaster just outside the market with a very long line. I bought some Turkish coffee for gifts with the logic that if locals are standing in line to purchase it must be pretty good!

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If you’re looking for a more structured visit to the Grand Bazaar, consider joining a tour such as the Grand Bazaar Walk from Istanbul Walks. If you’re a photography buff, there’s a photography walk from Alternative City Walks. I researched this as a possibility if I went alone, but I ended up going with colleagues so opted not to take the tour. No matter how you visit the bazaars, the experience is bound to be a memorable one!

Have you visited the bazaars in Istanbul? Do you want to ? We’d love to hear from you in the comments below!

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A Day at the Dead Sea

I had one free day in Jordan on a work trip  to see a bit of the country. Though Amman has lots to explore and Petra looks amazing to visit, I decided to spend a relaxing day at the Dead Sea. It proved to be the perfect way to combat jet lag and was the perfect day trip from Amman. Plus, the Dead Sea is consistently on lists of places in the world that are disappearing, and I wanted to see and experience it before that happens!

22380390124_890f7d2580_oWhen I left Amman, it was 15 degrees Celsius. On the taxi ride to the Movenpick Resort, I watched the thermometer steadily rise as we coasted down the road. By the time I arrived at the Dead Sea, the temperature was 25 degrees Celsius! The weather was just warm enough to want to change into my swimsuit and walk down to the beach.

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My first stop was floating in the Dead Sea, of course! Even though I knew the high salt concentration causes you to float, it was still amazing to get in the sea and stay buoyed without any effort. It was surreal to lay back, relax and just float and also entertaining to bob about by trying to submerge yourself.

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While floating, I noticed fellow bathers covering their bodies with mud from the sea stored in a clay pot.

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Once the salty sea started burning my skin, I moved on to the mud part of my wellness treatment. Because the mud is from the sea, it has a ton of minerals in it and is so good for your skin; plus, it’s said to have healing properties!

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I just had to take a photo with the sign. Evidence of being at the lowest point on earth!

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Once I was done with my sea salt and mud treatments, I lounged by the infinity pool overlooking the sea. A poolside bar served drinks (including fresh, delicious mango juice) and food. I loved looking out at the glassy sea and taking in the view of Israel from across the sea.

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Next I moved onto another pool that was heated. Swimming in November is a treat so I stayed in until I was all shriveled. Once the sun started setting, I enjoyed watching the sky change will all the colors. I also made friends with an orange kitty.

23032938401_68a96f4c7f_oThe colors just kept getting better and better as the sun continued setting. The reflection on the water was stunning!

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This was my final view of the Dead Sea- what a perfect way to end the day!

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Best Weekender Bags Under $200

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Sometimes that rolling carry-on is just too big for your long weekend! We’re a little too old and a little too well-traveled to be carrying our old high school gym bags around, so we’ve rounded up the best weekender bags that make it easy to carry everything you need. These bags have all the stylish details we love and still hold up to constant travel.

The Best Weekender Bags Under $200

cuyana weekender

Cuyana Canvas and Leather Weekender Bag
Price: $150
Why We Love It: Cuyana makes a gorgeous twill and leather weekender in 3 colors. We love the leather strap, the contrast lining, and the gold hardware. With the option to monogram it, it’s a great bag to give or to get!

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Baggu Sailor Stripe Weekend Bag
Price: $74
Why We Love it: Baggu bags are consistently showing up in our lists of travel must-haves and for good reason! This is a great price for a sturdy and roomy canvas bag, and the sailor stripe is so fun!

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Mark & Graham Weekender
Price: $199
Why We Love it: This one comes in at the top of our budget, but we can’t get over the great details. The leather accents and monogram reflect an old-fashioned style of travel, and the long shoulder strap makes it easier to tote around when full. It comes in 4 colorways, and while we love the natural canvas option, this navy version is less likely to get dirty.

Stella & Dot Versatile 3-in-1 Getaway
Price: $138
Why We Love it: You’ve got to love a bag that does double-duty! Stella & Dot’s Getaway bag is the perfect size for the overhead bin when expanded, but it also fits under your seat when zipped down to its smaller size. We love the blue ikat and the red elephant designs!

Everlane

Everlane Twill Weekender Price: $98
Why We Love it: I have this bag as well as the twill tote, and I love packing it for a long weekend away! The leather straps are very sturdy, and the canvas is thick, water-resistant, and beautifully lined. The interior zip pocket and the outside pocket keep my cords and smaller items contained. It’s a great bag! Check out Hitha on the Go’s instructions for how to pack a duffel – it features this weekender.

Lo & Sons Catalina Canvas Weekender
Price: $120
Why We Love it: Lo & Sons makes an amazing carry-on bag for business travelers, and Stephanie’s currently toting it around Istanbul right now for work! Their Catalina Canvas Weekender is even roomier and more affordable, and it comes in 7 fun colors. We love the lower zipper compartment to keep shoes or dirty laundry separate and organized. The bag is even machine-washable, so it’s ready for an adventure!

Herschel

Herschel Supply Co. Novel Duffel
Price: $80
Why We Love it: I can’t even begin to count how many designs this bag comes in, but at just $80, it’s worth treating yourself to this fun buffalo check print that is everywhere this fall! Like some of our other favorite bags, the shoe compartment and padded shoulder strap will make your weekend travel a little easier.

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Sole Society
Price: $80
Why We Love it: We’ve been seeing this bag all over travel and fashion blogs lately, and the customer reviews are really looking good! It’s a chic vegan leather in a classic style at a great price point. What’s not to love?

Do you carry any of these weekender bags? Let us know your reviews in the comments!

Looking for the perfect carry-on personal bag? You can find our favorites here along with a review of how our Everlane tote held up during a trip to France.

 

Meet Our Friend Afar: Ryan

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Tell us about yourself.

My name is Ryan, husband of Friend Afar, Meagan, and high school teacher and coach.  I teach foreign language (Spanish), but I am also a certified history teacher, too.  One of the ways that I love to combine these two disciplines is by leading student study abroad trips.  I have twice taken my students to Europe, and I hope to organize another trip very soon.  I love all things sports, especially Atlanta Braves baseball, soccer, golf, and (American) football.  I also love movies, television, board games, and any kind of trivia game.  I think traveling is great because I can experience nearly all of the things I love while I am away from home, albeit in new and exciting cultures which have their own unique traditions, customs, and practices.  And to think that I can return home to share my stories and inspire a captivated audience of eager young minds in my classroom makes the experience of travel all the more thrilling!

Where did you travel for your first trip abroad? Was it for work, school, or vacation?

My first trip abroad was to Vancouver, Canada during the summer between my senior year of high school and freshman year of college.  My mom had a work conference there, and my grandma and I tagged along.  The experience was so exciting because I felt like I was in a completely different world.  The trees were different, the animals were different, the food was different, the cities were different, and the people were different.  My grandma and I traveled out to see the sights during the day while my mom was working, and then we would all explore the city at night.  We also just so happened to be there during the Celebration of Light international fireworks competition, and we watched the show from our high-rise hotel balcony downtown.  It was definitely a memorable first trip abroad!

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Ryan in Cholula, Mexico

Do you speak a foreign language? How has that influenced your travel?

As I mentioned, I do speak a foreign language, and the very fact that I do can be attributed to my experiences with travel.  I studied Spanish in high school, but I never intended to continue using it after graduation.  During my first year of college I got a chance to participate in a mission trip to Juarez, Mexico to build houses for families in need.  I don’t really remember how it happened, but somehow I was chosen as the designated interpreter to communicate with the Mexican family for whom we were building the house.  At first this task scared me tremendously, but by the third and final day on our work site I felt so proud of the relationship that I had formed with that family of complete strangers who spoke a foreign language and lived in a world so foreign to me.  I think it was in that moment that the world shrunk for me.  No longer did I view other cultures as so distant and incomprehensible.  From that trip on I embraced the excitement of using my Spanish skills, and the very next semester I re-enrolled in Spanish courses.  The following year I spent an entire semester studying abroad in Puebla, Mexico where I lived, worked, played, and traveled with native Mexicans.  My language skills got better and better to the point where I now teach Spanish to high schoolers.  My knowledge of Spanish has also allowed me to travel with confidence to places like Costa Rica, Panama, and Spain.  In each of those places I learned so much more about the Spanish language, lessons that I can then take into my classroom as well.  So in a sense, not only has my speaking a foreign language influenced my travels, but my travels have also influenced my language skills to a great extent.

[Editor’s note: Ryan and Meagan met on another trip to Juarez while building houses with Casas por Cristo. That’s where it all started!]

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Of all the places you’ve visited, which place is your favorite and why?

My absolute favorite city is Rome.  I’m a huge history nerd so being inside the Colosseum or the Sistine Chapel sends shivers down my spine.  Plus, you can’t go wrong having the most delicious food on the planet for every meal.  Also, I don’t think one is truly living life to the fullest unless they have gelato at least once a day (but really more like two or three times a day!).  When Meagan and I honeymooned there, I remember saying to her how around every corner we turned it looked like an image on a postcard.  It is the perfect city for finding a bench in a square (or a spot on the Spanish Steps) and just spending hours watching the world stroll by.  Now that’s amore!

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What places are at the top of your travel list right now?

I spoke earlier of my love for all things sports so pretty much all of the top places on my travel list are sports related.  I would love to follow my favorite team, the Atlanta Braves, around the country to some of America’s iconic baseball parks.  I would also love to take a golfing trip up and down the British Isles, making sure to get in a round at The Old Course at St. Andrews, the home of golf.  I also really want to travel to northwest England to see my favorite soccer team, Liverpool, play a home match.  Finally, I would love to experience the Olympics or the World Cup in another country.  I’d love to be there from start to finish, going to the opening and closing ceremonies and attending matches all day every day.

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Ryan just attended the Tour de France for his 30th birthday and took this great shot at the Arc de Triomphe!

Has a book or movie influenced your travel?

I had a Spanish class in college where an assignment was to show a film and lead the class in discussion about the major themes of the work.  I chose the film Diarios de Motocicleta (The Motorcycle Diaries).  It is the story of Ernesto “Che” Guevara before he became the Cuban revolutionary figure that most people know him to be.  It is based on the true story of a motorcycle journey that Che and his friend took from Brazil to Peru.  As the adventure unfolds, they become transformed by their observations of the lives of the impoverished indigenous populations of South America.  Through the characters they encounter, they witness firsthand the injustices that the destitute face, and they are exposed to people and social classes they would have never encountered otherwise.  There is a quote from the film that has resonated with me ever since I watched it over and over again in preparation for my assignment presentation.  It reads, “Deja que el mundo te cambie y podrás cambiar el mundo (Let the world change you and you can change the world).”  I think often about this notion that if I truly want to make a difference in this world then I have to go out and see and experience it, warts and all.  Only then will I be able to fully understand the greatest challenges and needs of our society.

What advice would you give to someone traveling abroad for the first time?

A wise Alaskan native once told me (how I came to meet that wise and well-traveled man is another story for another day) that in order to truly experience a place you really need to travel that place by land.  It is easy to see the world by hopping from metropolitan city to metropolitan city via plane or even from major sight to major sight or subway station to subway station.  But you miss so much along the way that truly makes the experience memorable.  Traveling should not be about checking boxes off a must-see list.  It should be about living like a local, even if only for a few days or a few hours.  Stroll the streets with no particular destination in mind.  Buy your meal in a local market.  Take a train.  Rent a bike.  Go where the wind blows you.  Feel the vibe of a city.  You can still go to all the tourist sites and eat at the well-reviewed restaurants, but don’t forget to slow down and embrace the rhythm of life that your destination has to offer.  The moments that I remember most in my years of travel are often the most quiet and intimate ones that were never captured on camera or found in a guide book – a picnic under the Eiffel Tower, a late-night walk along the flooded cobblestones of St. Mark’s Square in Venice after all the tourists have left the city and the locals come out to play, or an ice-cold soda after a long, hot trek through the Panamanian jungle.  These are the memories that I cherish the most, and these are the moments that will make you want to continue traveling time and time again.

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Ballooning over Albuquerque with World Balloon

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My husband and I opted not to take a hot air balloon ride during the Balloon Fiesta but saved it for our actual anniversary a couple of days later! I did research on various ballooning companies based in Albuquerque and settled on World Balloon because of their excellent TripAdvisor reviews. Also, I found a $10 off coupon in the Visitors & Convention Bureau brochure I got when we picked up our rental car. We waited until the day before to book our flight since we were being indecisive, but thankfully they had spots available for us.

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In October World Balloon only offers sunrise flights (they start sunset flights in November), so we got up while it was still dark to go to the launch site. My husband got to help with the setup of the balloon while I took a bunch of photos of the process. Once the balloon was inflated, we all hopped into the basket to take off. I must admit I was a bit nervous beforehand, but as soon as we were off the ground I was just so enthralled by the whole experience that I felt just fine. The ride is so smooth that you forget you’re airborne.

I enjoyed looking out and seeing the city of Albuquerque below from above. My favorite part of the ride was floating over the cottonwood forest, the largest in North America, and the Rio Grande River where our basket skimmed the water! It was so peaceful and relaxing floating over the river and seeing other balloons in the distance. Our guide Murray and the two other ground crew members were fantastic and told us interesting stories about his years as a balloon pilot. As we went over downtown, we were able to pick out our hotel, Hotel Parc Central.

During our landing, we saw a road runner running out of the way! After the flight, my husband said it was “the highlight of the year.” Mind you, we went to Greece this year! It was an amazing experience and I highly recommend it! We enjoyed going as part of a group since we met interesting fellow balloonists from a variety of places.

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After our ride back to the launching site from the landing site, a champagne celebration with muffins and other breakfast foods was waiting for us. While we feasted on the treats Murray regaled us with the history of ballooning and why champagne is served. The Montgolfiere brothers of France were the first to have successful manned flights. Legend has it that when they first started flying and landing in fields peasants mistook the balloon for a fire-breathing dragon, since the balloons were filled with smoke in addition to hot air, and would attack them with stones and pitchforks. Early balloonists brought champagne with them to appease the peasants and so a tradition was born. Today champagne is served during the first flight ceremony and the balloonists prayer might also be featured. It goes like this “The winds have welcomed you with softness. The sun has blessed you with his warm hands. You have flown so high and so well that God has joined us together in laughter and set us gently back into the loving arms of Mother Earth.”

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